(inse)CURE

Jadi… Belakangan ini, saya dan teman-teman spesies kalajengking di kantor sering mendapat tuduhan insecure saat tidak diikutsertakan dalam suatu keriaan.

Padahal, kalau mau jujur pada diri sendiri, kamu juga ada kalanya mengalami kegalauan semacam ini kan? Karena pada dasarnya manusia punya keinginan untuk diterima kan?

Begini penjelasannya…

Belongingness is the human emotional need to be an accepted member of a group. Whether it is family, friends, co-workers, or a sports team, humans have an inherent desire to belong and be an important part of something greater than themselves. The motive to belong is the need for “strong, stable relationships with ther people.” This implies a relationship that is greater than simple acquaintance or familiarity. The need to belong is the need to give and receive affection from others.

(sumber : copy/paste dari sini)

Begitulah… Sekuat-kuatnya menjalani hidup sendiri, kita akan lebih kuat saat menjalani hidup bersama-sama kan?

Karena kebersamaan adalah “obat hati” :)

2 comments

  1. Itu mba nya suka merasa begini, jadi coba dipaksa-paksa (kalo cuman diajak nggak akan mempan kan?)

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